“Loss of faith of a fangirl” A SUPER AWFUL- REBLOG
It took me a really long time to respond to this. In fact, I wasn’t even going to respond. However, this has been really weighing on my mind the last few days. I don’t even know Ryan, and I obviously wouldn’t consider him a friend. But I do think it’s really unfair to judge the way any person copes with illness, sadness or anything else in their lives.
First of all, NAMM is happening in Anaheim and it is a very good possibility that Ryan is in LA for the convention, which he may be contractually obligated to attend.
Secondly, even if he is just in LA because he is taking a vacation…this does not make him a liar nor does it mean he is playing some sort of game with his fans. The man has a right to take a vacation.
I know when I’m in a transitional time in my life, or dealing with something really major, a change of scenery definitely helps me. For all we know, Ryan is in Los Angeles just trying to find some balance, sunshine and a bit of a break from all the stress in his life. Should we really judge him for that? For seeking out the company of friends, mild weather and the simple pleasures of hiking and walking dogs? Doesn’t everyone deserve that?
If you think he’s playing games, stop reading. If you think he’s lying, walk away.
As for me, I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt. Enjoy the vacation, Ryan. The vacation from music, blogging, expectations, etc, etc. I know I relish my own vacations.
THIS IS WHAT SOME PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT MY CONDITION…ISN’T IT NEAT HOW AWFUL PEOPLE CAN BE-
You really did it this time. I didn’t think you could but you did.
In one easy step you managed to lose all your credibility. I defended you. I supported you. I believed you. I felt for you. I tried to support you. I thought you were lonely and depressed.
But no it appears you were playing yet another one of your games with your fans on tumblr while in actual fact you would appear to be having fun in the sun in LA. I don’t begrudge you any of that. I wish you happiness above all else.
But these games aren’t funny any more. The novelty’s worn off. Can’t you find something else to amuse you? I hope (your soon to be ex) Band mates enjoyed the joke as well.
I’m sorry but if you will play these games sooner or later they’ll come back and bite you in the ass. Believe me.
My advice to you. Get a grip. Face up to your responsibilities and act like a man. And stop playing stupid games with people.
What did I miss?
“Matron! He’s out of his bed again!”
You forgot the linen jacket….
God forbid you go through losing part of what made you be able to hold on when everything was falling apart.
and although this makes me ill, i still wish you peace and that you would not suffer like i have, because i know people suffer so much more, so so much more than i have or ever will
take it back, you should take this awful stuff back
